Gender differences in the meaning of dating and marriage among international students from Turkey

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  • Rakel Delevi California State University
  • Asli Bugay TED University

https://doi.org/10.4471/generos.2013.23

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Abstract

In this qualitative study, we interviewed 12 female and 10 male graduate students from Turkey. All of the participants have been living in the US for at least a year. Given that the collectivistic Turkish culture is very different than the more individualistic American culture, we aimed at understanding how men and women’s meaning of dating and marriage changed as a result of living in the US. We conducted semi-structured interviews to understand the gender differences in the experience of change as experienced by the participants. The results and implications for cross-cultural research are discussed.

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Author Biographies

Rakel Delevi, California State University

Raquel Delevi, Ph.D., MFTI, CFLE, is an Assistant Professor at California State University, Los Angeles. Her research focuses on various aspects of relationships including the impact of technology on relationships, interparental conflict, and cross-cultural meaning of romantic relationships. She can be contacted via email at rdelevi@calstatela.edu

Asli Bugay, TED University

Aslı Bugay, Ph.D., is an Assistant Professor of Guidance and Psychological Counseling at TED University (Ankara/TURKEY). Her research interests include forgiveness, self-forgiveness, romantic relationships, and rumination. She can be contacted via email at asli.bugay@tedu.edu.tr

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2013-06-25

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Delevi, R., & Bugay, A. (2013). Gender differences in the meaning of dating and marriage among international students from Turkey. Multidisciplinary Journal of Gender Studies, 2(2), 127–149. https://doi.org/10.4471/generos.2013.23

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